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Anonymous asked: my boyfriend forced me to have sex with him but i didnt want to. he raped me then left me but he keeps coming back to me. i love him and dont want to leave him. what do i do ?

How can you love someone who forces you into doing that shit? Omfg, when i read that, i wanted to rage up. What a fucking douche he is. How can you possibly want someone who fucking raped you?! CRAZY GIRL. You don’t deserve that shit. If he loved you back, he wouldn’t forced you into doing things you don’t want to do. Right? So let’s just be straight out here - he doesn’t give a shit about how you feel. So can you have the balls to actually want him? You’re so much better than this. Believe me. 


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Anonymous asked: i hate my life, i dont know what to do with it anymore all i get is shit and shit and shit ffffs fml i just want someone to talk to

I’m here if you want to let it all out D: 


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Anonymous asked: i really want to go to homecoming!! theres this guy i sorta wanna go with, but i doubt hes even going at all. i wish someone would at least ASK me... our homecoming is *HOGWARTS* themed so i really want to go -.- most of my friends are getting asked and a lot of guy friends i know asked girls. forever alone...

well i think its time for YOU to take the initiative. Ask someone :) If you have the confidence to ask instead of waiting for a guy to ask you - you’re bound to get respect from the guys.


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Anonymous asked: i broke up with my boyfriend a loooongg time ago , but is it bad to still have feelings for him even if he is taken ? :(

It’s not a crime but it isn’t good either. Not only is this hurting you - knowing that the person you like is now taken but it can also be potentially bad for the guy & his gf. Why? Because your feelings might come out & cause so much trouble between them. Do yohr very best to forget him- it’s for your own good as well as his. You’re better off liking someone who has the chance to like you back.


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Anonymous asked: do you believe in love at first sight? because im 99% sure i experienced it. no jokeeee

No, I don’t believe in love at first sight. How can you fall in love someone with just a glance? Like my friend has recently said, it’s more like lust at first sight. You look at their appearance & you fall for their appearance. Not their personality. Not who they are as a person. It’s quite ridiculous how love at first sight works- because in my opinion, i think that phrase is just simply saying “Oh yea, this person is hot. I think I’m in love.” No. Love doesn’t work that way. & as for those little “sparks” that you feel when you see this person. It’s bullshit. Doesn’t work like that.


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Anonymous asked: Hey Ella, do you think it's okay for me (a girl) to lose my virginity at the age of 13? people say it's the greates feeling ever...

Personally, no. But then I can’t judge or put my opinion out seeing as I don’t know your story or you. It doesn’t matter if it’s the “greatest” feeling ever. 13 is way too young. the “great” feeling can wait.


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Anonymous asked: just like the girl... I've never been asked out. 4 of my friends had boyfriends already and the other one has a lot of suitors, yet she never let them court her. (very conservative) --- Because of this, I always think I'm too ugly to be asked out. I know that I don't need a man to make me feel that I'm beautiful, but you know? I can't help but to feel that way.

Looks isn’t about anything. It’s the personality is what’s important in a relationship/when it coms to love. So if you really want to experience love - why don’t you show everybody your gorgeous personality? Some good will soon enough, look past your “looks” (even though i know you’re beautiful) & actually take notice of your equally beautiful personality.


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Anonymous asked: Well, me and my mate both like the same girl and she likes him idk what to do :(

Personally if i was in your situation, I’d back off. She doesn’t like me. So what’s the point? And plus, my mate likes her & they both like each other so why not just let them be happy? I wouldn’t want to be in the middle forming a boundary between them. I would want them to be happy.. even if it means putting my happiness away. 


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Anonymous asked: What do you think of girls who ask guys out first and try to make a guy like her? Do you think she's being too straight forward, will guys actually be less attracted to girls like this?

Personally, I think that guys find it more attractive. That it shows that the girl actually wants the making the guy feel super special about himself. There’s nothing wrong with girls asking guys out first - merely just shows that girls have the courage to take initiative & thats what guys like. If you’re able to do something that girls don’t usually do - its bound to attract & impress the guy a lot more.


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Anonymous asked: where is the inner fold of the elbow? D:

whuuut? LOL i really dont know sorry! D:


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Anonymous asked: i hate my life

Everyone, at one stage of their life feel like their life is shit. & that there’s no point in living. Or things won’t get better. But from past experiences, that’s not true. You will overcome obstacles. boundaries, “shitty moments” in life. You just need to try and be positive about it all. You’ve got a family who loves you unconditionally. A mum who would do anything to make you happy. A dad who would work his ass off for your benefit. Brothers/cousins/sisters/whatever to cheer you up and give you that “family” love. And then there’s your friends, are you trying to diss your friend’s love? Your friends care about you. Love you. Admire you. You can’t just say you hate your life when in fact, your life has not finished yet. That amazing things will change and make your life absolutely great. You just got to believe it. There’s nothing to really hate about life - not everyone is perfect so of course there will be times where you have to face something horrible in life. But what’s what makes life great. Different. Exciting. So live your life to the fullest. Do crazy things, take risks, smile, chill out with family and friends and you will see that you are genuinely happy. 


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Anonymous asked: oops forgot anon
lol deleteeee!

gay jamie. gay. ;) deleted it bbzzz!xo


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Anonymous asked: im getting braces soon and im really scared

dont be! braces are nothing to be ashamed of, when they are eventually taken off you will have beautifully perfect teeth. theres no need to stress about having them! i have braces, they dont hurt at all. :)


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Anonymous asked: how to ask a girl out?

just let it come naturally. what have you got to lose? in this situation you can only gain. it may seem hard, but my advice is just to go for it. :)


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